Most sex advice you’ll find on the Internet refers to the clitoris as a “nub,” or a “button.” But here’s what most guys don’t know: That tiny bump above her vagina is just the tip of the iceberg.
The clitoris actually stretches backwards into her body and branches into a wishbone shape that wraps around the front and sides of her vagina. In total, it’s about 4 inches long.
Lucky for you, that means there are lots of ways to stimulate the most sensitive part of her body.
Read on for three surprising ways to make her moan—and for step-by-step instructions on how to bring her to orgasm, check out How to Pleasure a Woman, the brand-new sex manual from the editors of Men’s Health. You’ll find hundreds more tricks and techniques that will help you become the best lover she’s ever had.
Stroke Her Shaft
Lots of guys home in on the glans clitoris (the “nub”) like a bullseye. But the area just above her glans is an even hotter spot for many women. The shaft of her clitoris lies so close beneath the skin there that you can actually feel it: It feels like a small cord. Once you find it, use your index and middle finger to rub circles or back-and-forth motions, or use your tongue.
Meet Her Mons
First, an introduction: The triangle-shaped area where her public hair grows is called the mons pubis, or mons for short. When you press here, you can stimulate the internal parts of her clitoris. Use the heel of your hand to push into the mons while you use your fingers to play with her glans. During intercourse, pressing on the mons can help send her over the edge.
Take the Back Way
Deep pressure on the front wall of her vagina may stimulate the ultra-sensitive inner roots of her clitoris, which lie on the other side of her vaginal wall. In fact, this may be why hitting her G-spot feels so good. Once she’s wet, insert a finger or two into her vagina and slowly massage the front wall. You can also aim for this sweet spot during intercourse with positions like woman-on-top or rear entry.
