A relationship with a difficult woman is never an easy one; it’s one filled with lots of tests of character. Not every man can cope with a difficult woman, because a difficult woman takes a bit more of understanding, care and affection.
Below are some bitter truths you realise when you love a difficult woman.
1. YOU WOULD RATHER NOT SAY YOUR MIND
When in a relationship with a difficult woman, you would rather not reply her always; there are many times you might want to say something but you would rather keep shut because her countenance might be quite hostile. Replying her every word would mean more quarrels, debates and probably more misunderstanding. So in a bid to avoid this, you would rather keep mute at times.
2. SHE LOVES TO MAKE ALL THE DECISIONS
A difficult woman also loves to make most if not all of the decisions. You might not make a decision without her, but she definitely would. A difficult woman would never be told what to do, she would rather tell you what to do.
3. YOU SOMETIMES WONDER IF YOU’RE THE MAN IN THE RELATIONSHIP
The first and second tip would make you question your status in the relationship. Naturally a man loves to be ‘a man’ in a relationship; but a difficult woman would never spare you such luxury. With a difficult woman, she would definitely love to take the lead role.
4. YOU ACKNOWLEDGE SHE’S A STRONG WOMAN DEEP WITHIN
A difficult woman might be hard to be with, but deep within, you know she’s no ordinary woman; she has a source of strength that never vanishes. She has strength, she has character and she’s resilient.
5. YOU WOULD RATHER LOSE AN ARGUMENT
Some arguments are meant to be lost, and an argument with a difficult woman is one you would rather lose even before it starts. She wants to have things her way, she’s used to having things her way, and there is little or nothing you can do about that.
6. SHE’S FULL OF SURPRISES
You never know what to expect with a difficult woman. This moment she might be calm, caring and attentive and the next minute she’s the total opposite. She’s unique in her own way and a relationship with her would be full of energy and surprises.
A relationship with a difficult woman is usually difficult and it can only take a patient man to fully understand how to cope and enjoy a relationship with that difficult woman.