Every couple have their sex-equation and it is unique in their own way. But when it comes to pleasuring a woman, men face a lot of anticipation, though they will never admit! There are many thoughts running through their mind, especially about the vagina. Is it a good idea to go down on a woman or how to tell his girlfriend that she needs to shave down there -- a man's head is full of thoughts while having sex.
Am I hitting the right spots! Now unlike the penis which is just there to get the pleasure the vagina is vast – G-spot, clitoris, the labia -- you may never know which spot gives her the maximum pleasure. Moreover, unless you her very well, it is difficult to judge if you are hitting the right spots.
Should I give oral a try? While most men like it, they aren’t sure if their woman might enjoy it with equal fervour. However, they will not shy away from giving their woman one if she likes it. But they need to know if they can really go down there. A little indication is all that they need.
Ouch it hurts there! No man will ever tell you outright if you need shave and then hit the bed, but that prickly fuzz that grows after few days of shaving does make it a bit uncomfortable for them. Take care to either have a soft growth or keep it clean shaven.
Can I say you look fantastic down there? Not all men have the courage to say ‘Honey, you look fantastic down there,’ but they want to scream their heart out. Only, they aren’t sure how the girl is going to take it, especially, when the relationship is at a nascent stage.
Can you use a lube? No one wants it dry down there, it doesn’t excite a man too much neither is it fun for the partner. If it doesn’t happen all on its own, using a lube is a great option. He doesn’t have to spend too much energy to excite and get his girl wet down there.
How can I get it excited? When it comes to pleasuring the vagina, men don’t exactly know what it is that can do the trick – the finger or the tongue? A little hint will definitely go a long way!
Was this orgasm real? Yes, women are known to be good at faking orgasm. Something men can never master. So even when the girl is done, he still looks for an indication that the girl is satisfied.
